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Online Dating Tips for Men

By Melanie on April 28th, 2011

The rules of traditional dating and online dating are the same simply because online dating ultimately ends in arranging a real-life date with a potential partner. If you are truly attracted to your online date and want to make her the love of your life, you must follow a few simple dating rules.

Your Clothes

Wardrobe issues are just as important for men as they are for women. When you meet your potential mate for the first time, you must not only be dressed well, but also must look comfortable. Spend sometime on your wardrobe and buy some new clothes if necessary. Pay special attention to your shoes because that is one of the first things she will notice. Look your best when you meet her for the first time because the first impression really matters.

Looks are Important

A number of women have complained that “men stink,” but do not allow her to make that complaint about you. Head over to the salon, fix your hair, and get a shave—this will make you look fresh and bright. Next, purchase some great smelling perfume. Take a nice long shower before you meet her. You will definitely sweep her off her feet.

Relax

When you are face to face with her on web cam, relax. Smile and make eye contact and listen carefully to all that she has to say, but simultaneously, make it quite clear to her that you have your own opinions. Keep the conversation positive, light, and amusing, but not flippant.

Never make the mistake of getting too emotional; in other words, don’t bare your heart to her and tell her too much about “how you feel” about her. She will run away as fast as possible. Appear aloof, but at the same time, show genuine interest in what she says and how she looks and how she makes you feel.

Let Her Get Attracted to You

As a man dating his potential partner for the first time after a lot of online communication, you must understand that men and women get attracted in different ways. While men generally fall for looks, women fall for personality. She is not going to fall for you just because you look great.

During your first few conversations and online dates, she will observe you carefully. If you succeed in making her feel like a million dollars, she will be a little in love with you by the end of your first few talks on webcam. However, this is easier said than done. You must polish your body language and communication skills in such a way that women simply cannot help but notice you.

Your Career

Women love men who are eager to make something of their lives. If you are not serious about your job or career, most women are not going to get serious about you. You don’t have to be a doctor or lawyer, but people want to know they aren’t dating a bum. Before posting your online dating profile, invest some time in sorting out your career goals. Potential matches are going to ask you plenty of questions about your career, and if you cannot provide satisfactory answers, very few woman will ever consider your profile.

Stay Informed

Women do not like ignorant, lazy men who do not even read the daily newspapers. You will impress her when you show her how much you know about the world, the current affairs, sports events, lifestyle and culture, and so on. However, do not get pompous about it.

Video Chat with Her

Invite her to video chat with you because it gives you a chance to really get to know each other better. Send her pictures of yourself and play online games with her to keep your online relationship fun. Don’t be in a hurry to get her digits, but do not be too slow either.

Be Courteous

Treat the lady with respect; she will appreciate you for it. Avoid using coarse language and use polite expressions as much as possible whenever you chat with her. Be chivalrous because women love it when men send them e-greetings and funny chat messages. Show her that you are interested in getting to know her and what matters to her. On your first date, when you take her out to dinner, pay special attention to table etiquette because no woman likes a pig.

Limit the first date to just a hug and a kiss if you are lucky and do not expect her to jump into bed with you immediately after the first date. Show her that you are capable of waiting for the right time because you are more interested in a serious relationship with her.

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